You think you’re pretty, you think you’re smart, I bet you think you’re the most interesting woman on the planet right? But how do men view you? I’m not talking about does he turn and look when you walk by, let’s go deeper than the physical bullshit girls use as a crutch. Does he think you’re smart? Does he find you interesting? Are you classy in his mind or just another basic broad he’s ran through? Take a moment to think about the last dude you were seriously involved with. What did he like most about you? If it was something like “My smile” or “The way I rode it” you have a serious problem. Are you the type of woman he can spend all day talking to and has a connection deeper than the physical attraction or are you simply Sex? And by Sex I mean your only value to that man is to satisfy his physical needs. Your job is to make him cum. Sex isn't just the hoe or the slut, it’s also the girlfriend who we have no intention of marrying or keeping around past a year. Men love sex, but we do not marry Sex. A man may show Sex off to his friends. He might buy Sexy gifts. Occasionally Sex gets to come out of the house and get treated to dinner. Sex even gets pregnant and becomes the Baby Mama. But he NEVER EVER marries Sex. A lot if not most men see women as Sex initially, but after a few conversations we can decide if she’s more.
What do you talk about? “We spend all night on the phone talking, we have so much in common”, please. Do you know how many hours I’ve spent on the phone with girls who I couldn’t stand? I’ve stayed up until 6am more times than I can count, and it wasn’t because the girl was interesting, it was because I wanted what she had and was putting in work. Take away the gossip, the TV show talk, and the sexual flirting; what did I talk to you about? We both like the same colors… wow. We both randomly know Chauncey the stick up boy… incredible. Spending twenty minutes saying “Did You Miss Me” and having a back and forth on who missed who gets tired. The number one question a man wants to know, “When can I see you”. Why? Because you’re Sex and we can’t get the Sex he wants over the phone.
You’re not the brightest, you can tie your shoe and put your hair into a bun, but that’s where your genius ends. Stop pretending as if you visit CNN.com before you visit mediatakeout.com. It’s okay to be into basic things, but be able to put together a sentence. If I say, “So why didn’t you like Black Swan” don’t come at me with, “That was some white people shit”. That’s not a movie review, that’s a woman with poor analytical skills who tuned out as soon as she realized this wasn’t a comedy. There are more important things than who Chris Brown is having sex with. I don't want to date a woman with the life experience of a 17 year old, I did that when I was 18.
Are You Boring: No one wants a girl who sits around saying “I’m bored”? If you’re a bored female, that means you are boring. I don’t care how pretty you are I don’t want to waste my time with a boring woman who always needs to be entertained by the most basic things. I’m bored my phone’s not ringing today. I’m bored nobody’s texting me. I’m bored nothing’s on TV. Guess what? I’m bored after sex with you for a month because all you do is seek attention. Your sex may be wet, but your personality is dry! There are people that make things happen and there are people who complain that nothing’s happening. Which are you?
Are You Loyal: Yeah yeah you would never cheat physically, but who do you talk to besides him? Who do you flirt with besides him? Men know when a female has an active phonebook. Do you think he’s going to see you as more than a good time girl if you have dudes blowing up your phone? He can say, “cut every other dude off for me” but let’s be realistic, you have excuses to why you talk to and are close to other men, he’s your brother, he’s your best male friend, you work with him… the list goes on. If you’re not willing to let go of your backup Sex, why should he upgrade you from Se to the potential wife?